A Tzaddik’s Behavior

The story of Yakov wrestling with the Angel, seems to be focused on the spiritual and the mystical. The entire incident is debated between the Rambam and Ramban, as to whether this was a dream, or it really happened.

The Ramban takes the position that the event really did take place. His proof is that Yakov came away limping. If it was a dream, he would not have woken up with an injury.

I believe that the focus of this incident should be on a small detail. Yakov was left alone because he went back to retrieve small packages that he left behind.

A truly righteous person is extremely careful not to be involved in גזל, theft. He takes great care to hold on to his own possessions and will not take what doesn’t belong to him.

Just as a צדיק is careful with his speech, and does not tell lies, or speak לשון הרע, he is also careful not to be accused of dishonesty on any level.

Because Yakov lived according to these principles, he merited an incredible spiritual experience.