Admitting Mistakes

The one major point that stands out about Yehuda and his emergence as the leader of the Jewish people, was his ability to admit when he was wrong.

Tamar was willing to risk her life rather than embarrass Yehuda. And he was a big enough person to say those famous words, צדקה ממני, that she is more righteous than me.

When we look at world leaders throughout history, it is very rare for one to publicly admit when they are wrong. Only King David really stuck out as such a leader who immediately accepted guilt when confronted with his behavior with Bat Sheva. And he was a descendant of Yehuda.

It is always easier to “pass the buck” and put the blame on others. But what such leaders need to realize, is that such admissions actually increase the respect they will receive.

It is very human to make mistakes. But it is perhaps super-human to have the courage to be able to admit and ask forgiveness for such mistakes.

The proof of this was the ultimate results of such confessions, helped make Yehuda and David the great men that they became.