No Entitlement

Every year when we read the story of Moshe Rabbeinu’s request to enter Eretz Yisrael, we can only feel sorry for him, and understand his disappointment.

Despite a career of unwavering devotion to the Jewish people, he made this request in the form of a מתנת חינם, a gift for free. He understood that nothing was coming to him.

This point was made in Messilat Yesharim in the chapter on humility. One must never feel a sense of entitlement based on his accomplishments in this world.

On the contrary, if one is blessed with abilities, such as a creative mind or great intelligence, he has a responsibility to use these G-d given gifts. He should not expect or desire praise, for putting these gifts into practice. He should only be concerned that he did not reach his full potential.

This is a very positive and healthy way to look at life. We need to develop the confidence that we are doing what is expected of us. Seeking praise and honor, diminishes his noble actions.

The Keli Yakar gives King Chizkiyahu as an example of where he was reprimanded for the manner in which he prayed. He is quoted as saying, “Remember how I walked before You in truth.”

The approach should have been that we deserve nothing in this world. Hashem’s kindness is without end. We must humbly approach G-d that He should answer our prayers as מתנת. חינם, a free gift. This will allow us to be overwhelmed with appreciation for all that we have. This is the way to achieve true contentment and peace of mind.