Overly Righteous
There is an important Pasuk in Kohelet that has great relevance today. In Chapter 7:16, Shlomo Hamelech warns, אל תהי צדיק הרבה, “Do not be overly righteous.”
Rav Steinsaltz elaborates on the meaning of this statement. Reality is complicated and twisted, and, therefore, one must be careful. Do not be excessively virtuous , by being merciful in an exaggerated manner.
One should not be extreme in distancing oneself from sin. One can grow mad or depressed through extreme behavior. Excessive righteousness or wisdom can backfire.
Conversely, do not be overly wicked, and do not act foolishly. Why should you die before your time.
Adopt the middle road; do not go to any extreme. For one who fears G-d, he is the moderate person. He will emerge from them all. There are many problems destined for those who tend towards the extreme.
This message is rarely emphasized nowadays. Extremism is very prevalent in the religious world. It is a path that leads to intolerance and self righteousness. We must take the middle ground and be assured that our fear of Hashem will protect us. This is the proper way to serve Hashem.