Movement Not Stagnation

Rabbi Twerski focuses on the word, תלכו, that you shall walk, in the opening line of the Parsha. It begins with, ואם בחוקותי תלכו, if you shall walk in my ways.

The idea of “walking” in Hashem’s ways, expresses movement. It could have simply said that we need to observe the Mitzvot of the Torah. The “walking” serves to emphasize the importance of being certain that we do not come to stagnation.

A Jew is meant to constantly be working on himself, to go higher and higher in spirituality. Pirkei Avot tells us דלא מוסיף יסף, that if one is not increasing in his holiness, he is decreasing.

Every day sees us in an active struggle towards self improvement. If we are not growing because of the awareness that we must have towards such growth, it is an indication that we are falling.

I have said for years that whether it relates to dating and the choice of a spouse, or even the choice of a friend, there is a clear indicator if this potential relationship is worthwhile.

Early in the relationship, it is necessary to let the other person know how important it is to, “work on yourself.” If the response is that this potential spouse or friend, makes it clear that this is not a priority, such a relationship will remain superficial at best. We need to surround ourselves with upbeat, positive people, interested in making themselves and the world, far better. This is reflected by the emphasis on “walking” in Hashem’s ways. We need movement, not stagnation.