Sanctity of the Jewish Home

The sections in the Torah that discuss proper sexual behavior are found in the two Parshiot of Acharei Mot and Kedoshim. The warnings are found in Acharei Mot, and the punishments are listed in Kedoshim.

The subject is first introduced in the context of the behavior of the surrounding nations of Canaan and Egypt. They were two nations that were extremely decadent in their pagan worship and immoral behavior.

The Rambam wrote that Egypt was so decadent that men married men, and women married women.

The Ramban wrote that the way to achieve holiness is by separating from forbidden sexual relationships. This is the reason why strict laws were enacted to make a fence around these laws.

There are so many instances where people can ruin their lives in a moment of indiscretion. One can’t take back a foolish action. It can never be undone completely, and could take years to achieve some kind of repairing.

The anchor of the Jewish people is the Jewish home. When the laws of Family Purity are meticulously observed, there is sanctity in the home. One can sense the deep love between husband and wife, and the kindness and mutual respect they have for one another. It sets a certain special mood in the home.

All of this comes about because of the clear boundaries that are set in the Torah. This probably explains why the punishments are so severe for violating these laws.

We have a special role to play as a “Kingdom of Priests and a holy nation.” We achieve this by carefully following the laws related to sexual morality.