Aharon’s Empathy

We read in פרשת שמיני how Aharon was hesitant to begin acting as Kohein Gadol. He was embarrassed for his part in the sin of the Golden Calf. He did not see himself as being worthy of such a high position.

Moshe Rabbeinu needed to explain to him that it was specifically because of that reason, that he would be most effective as the High Priest of Israel.

His job was to bring atonement for the Jewish people. Now that he personally felt the shame of not meeting up to his own expectations, he would better be able to help guide those coming to him for assistance in achieving atonement for their sins.

Rabbi Twerski spoke of how empathy is a much higher level than sympathy. It is so much more meaningful and comforting, when one is able to feel the pain of his friend. That individual does not feel alone and knowing that he is understood, and others have managed to overcome similar challenges, will give him that determination to fix things and move forward.

This was what Moshe understood about his brother, and it is a great lesson for us all.